The Sweater Weather Round Up

Bulky sweaters do the job of blocking out the cold in the winter, but I don’t always feel super cute. However, sometimes you come across those multi-purpose sweaters that do both – the game changers. The ones that scream “it’s ok, you can be warm and cozy and still run the world.”

I came across this lace up sweater from Make Me Chic and it did just that.
BONUS: it’s under $30!

And because I’ve never been so excited about sweater weather, in addition to this gem, I’ve linked a few of my other favorite game changers below.

Enjoy!

The Game Changing Sweater
The Game Changing Sweater
The Game Changing Sweater
SWEATER: Make Me Chic | JEANS:  Top Shop via Nordstrom Rack | BOOTIES: Target (P.S. UNDER $20!!)

ROUNDUP
Topshop | $68
The Game Changer Sweater - Roundup

Free People | $59
The Game Changer Sweater - Roundup

Madewell | $79.50
The Game Changer Sweater - Roundup

The Loft | $79.50
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Topshop | $95
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Anthropologie| $98
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Free People | $168
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Nordstrom | $65
The Sweater Weather Round Up

 

 

The Rollercoaster That Was 2016

Here we are. About to close out 2016. With each year that passes as an adult, I try to reflect in order to not only reminisce, but to learn. This year was single-handedly the busiest and most emotional year of my life. Literally full of blood, sweat and a whole lot of tears. That being said, it was also the best year of my life.

By now, everyone knows the disaster that came with our original wedding venue, but before that took on a life of it’s own, the year was actually going pretty well! And thanks to friends and family, it continued to have its patches of sun through the clouds (lets be honest, downpours).

The Rollercoaster That Was 2016

At the very end of last year, I announced to my friends and family a secret that I had been keeping for a few months. THIS BLOG! I was so nervous about what people would think and the judgment that would come along, that I kept it to myself until December 31 when I did a 2015 reflection. To my surprise, I received an overwhelming amount of support from friends, family, strangers, etc. And for those who judge, save us both some time and X out.  The blog has had so much growth this year. I’ve met some really wonderful people, local and beyond, and learned a lot from them. I’ve also worked with some inspiring causes and  collaborated with some awesome brands. In particular, I had the honor of working with a girl boss that I’ve admired since graduating college and moving into Baltimore City. Her style was everything. And this year, five years later, I did a shoot with her, my first shoot outside of Will, so naturally I was completely unnatural, but she made it work and I took over her Instagram for a weekend. That was a big moment. It’s hard to believe that ‘never been so’ has only been alive for a little over a year, because it feels like such a huge part of me now. I can’t wait to see what’s to come in 2017.

The Rollercoaster That Was 2016
The Rollercoaster That Was 2016
The Rollercoaster That Was 2016

This year I also got to give up the four hours a day I spent commuting for the last four years. I got a job MUCH closer to home, giving me my life back. I knew the commute took a toll on me and the people around me, but I never knew just how bad it was until it was gone. I used to wake up at 3:15am out the door by 3:45am to trek to DC and not even get home until around 6pm. That is a LONG day. The commute was basically a second job. I spent so much time refreshing google maps and waze just to avoid even more delays that I couldn’t even enjoy something distracting such as audiobooks. I ended up with high blood pressure and a ton of car problems. I was left stranded on 95 more times than I’d like to share, however, I did make the most of my AAA membership. It was bittersweet leaving NAVSEA, it wasn’t just about the job, I made a family there, those people went through something with me that I hope to never experience with anyone else, but I needed this change.

Not only did we have our own wedding (ICYMI, read our wedding story here), but we watched so many close friends tie the knot, get engaged, buy houses, get pregnant and have babies! This year especially feels like we’re hitting that age where these instances are expected, but I’m still filled with joy every single time I hear a new announcement. These are people I’ve known since writing notes in middle school, getting hammered Wednesday-Sunday in college and even new bffs who are now settling down where we’re supposed to and starting our lives. It’s pretty amazing.

Speaking of weddings, it’s actually been a really fun year planning and experiencing an engagement, ya know besides the wedding venue issue, the way a normal engagement is supposed to go. My maid of honor, bridesmaids and family planned some pretty awesome pre-wedding festivities.

My bridal shower was SO pretty, there were fresh flowers everywhere and it was full of champagne! I mean, a mimosa bar? YES. It even came with a video of Will answering questions about us and to my surprise, guessing all of my answers correctly!

The Rollercoaster That Was 2016
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The Rollercoaster That Was 2016

My Bachelorette party in Key West was one of the best weekends ever! It was definitely way more than I could have ever imagined. This trip came right at the height of the venue disaster, right when I was at my worst, and because of the seventeen beautiful women who joined me from all over, I spent NO TIME thinking about that. I cried once on that trip and it was out of pure happiness when I looked around and saw the love surrounding me, I couldn’t put into words how much these women meant to me, so the tears just flowed. Villas with a ‘courtyard’, live music, private yoga, private all day booze cruise with complimentary front row dolphin shows, dante’s, drag shows, body paint, flamingos,  A LOT of alcohol and a go pro video that captured it all in a four minute package.

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Travel was on the back burner this year with all that was going on with the wedding, but I managed to squeeze in a few trips to Napa, Chicago, and Jamaica. I need to get back to ALL three of them! I’m craving Napa’s vineyards, Chicago’s food, and Jamaica’s everything. We are already planning several trips for 2017 including Charleston, San Diego, Zion National Park, and our Honeymoon to Tanzania and Zanzibar! #neverbeensowanderlust

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All in all I feel bittersweet saying goodbye to 2016. While I’m overjoyed to no longer be dealing with Elk Manor BS and the other stresses of wedding planning, there’s a ton of things that were once in a lifetime experiences for me with regards to the wedding that will only be celebrated in 2016, so for that it’s hard to watch it go.

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This year taught me a lot. But mostly, it taught me to never give up. It taught me that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how bad it seems. And when it’s bad, lean on the people around me, they’re part of my circle for a reason. It’s a lot easier to handle the hard times when you ask for a little help. 2016 also taught me that I’m a lot stronger than I used to think I was. It taught me that the little shit doesn’t matter; that it takes up too much energy and time worrying about nonsensical drama. It taught me that being the bigger person is actually a lot easier and healthier than holding onto resentment and anger. It taught me to be cautious. It taught me that when I am passionate about something, I should chase it. I’m ready for you 2017.

Tell me one thing you learned in 2016…

 

This Look Will Leave You Craving the Winter Blues

Normally the winter really gets me down. Once the holidays are over, there isn’t much to look forward to. It’s freezing. It’s dark. Everything looks blah. But this look made me do a 180. These shades of blue paired with a pop of yellow have me smiling ear to ear.

Now I’ve never been so in the mood for (winter) blues.

These Vintage Boots will Have You Loving the Winter Blues

Are these boots not absolutely to die for? And for under $50!

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This Look Will Leave You Craving the Winter Blues
This Look Will Leave You Craving the Winter Blues

DRESS: Old Navy | FRINGE JACKET: Make Me Chic | BOOTS: Make Me Chic

 

Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago |First Visit|

Will and I recently earned Southwest Companion Status (and by recently, I mean two weeks ago) and told ourselves if we got it we’d take full advantage of the perk over the next year. So, we hopped on SW and within a few days time, we had a trip booked! Will had been to Chicago several times for work, but never for leisure and I had never been period, so we decided to make our first trip of this adventure |and as official newlyweds| to the Windy City. We traveled A LOT this year; we had our own bachelor/bachelorette parties, friends’ bachelor/bachelorette parties, work travel etc., but not once together, so needless to say we were excited.

Our countdown from booking to take off was five days! While excited, the short time frame had me slightly frazzled. As I mentioned in the first post of this series, I usually write down a few must-sees, but leave the actual travel planning to Will, and even with the time constraint, he did not disappoint.

October was a fantastic time to visit Chicago! It was chilly, but not too bad and even a week earlier, it was mid-70s/80s. A light jacket and scarf were my uniform all weekend. For a first time visit, I’d say three full days was an adequate amount of time to see the various neighborhoods of the city, while still leaving places to explore during a return trip.

The food scene in Chicago is pure bliss. If you remotely consider yourself a foodie, this is your city. I gained at least five pounds on this trip, but it was oh so worth it. Not sure I’ll feel the same when I’m attempting to squeeze into bathing suits for our Jamaica trip in three days, but that’s for another post.

Here is the play by play of how we spent our long weekend in CHI-TOWN, from must-sees to must-eats and what we plan to hit next time. Please comment below with any other recommendations!

Lodging:
The Palmer House
17 E. Monroe St
The Palmer House is located in the loop, two blocks from Millennium Park and conveniently near several CTA lines. The décor is magnificent. Old world glam meets sophistication. The staff was incredible.
Noteworthy: We received a text after check-in to make sure we were happy with our room. We were also able to use the text feature to alert the staff when we were leaving for the day and expecting to be back to ensure that housekeeping was sent while we were out.

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Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - The Palmer House

THURSDAY
We caught an afternoon flight from BWI, which got us into Chicago at 4PM, giving us enough time to check in and still explore for the afternoon and evening!

Cindy’s Rooftop
12 S. Michigan Avenue

Cindy’s Rooftop is located inside the Chicago Athletic Association Hotel and has the most beautiful view of Millennium Park. I can’t speak for the food because we didn’t eat, but the drinks were fantastic. The rooftop is enclosed, but also has a large outside balcony with fire pits for chilly weather.
Tip: Order the ‘Howl at the Jun’ cocktail – gin, ‘jun’ kombucha, grapefruit and sparkling rose.Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Cindy's Rooftop

Lou Malnati’s
439 N Wells Street
We are big pizza people and Chicago is a big pizza city. There are plenty of opinions about which is the best, but Lou Malnati’s did it for me. There are multiple locations; we went to the S. State Street location, had a bit of a wait, but that’s expected. The spinach bread was also phenomenal.
Tip: Order more than your hunger desires; this cold pizza for breakfast is on another level.
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Lou Malnati's

FRIDAY


Mortar and Pestle
3108 N. Broadway

The décor in this place is adorable. Fresh flowers on every wooden table, even one big farmhouse community table in the center. Great for a quick breakfast.
Noteworthy: Top the avocado toast with an egg, you wont be sorry.
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Mortar and Pestle
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Mortar and Pestle Avocado Toast

Lincoln Park and The Zoo
2001 North Clark Street (and surrounding areas)
I’m very familiar with Lincoln Park After Dark (hey, OPI), but had to see the real thing, at daylight. Lincoln Park lies along the lakefront from Ohio Street Beach in the Streeterville neighborhood, northward to Ardmore Avenue in Edgewater. The section of Lincoln Park adjacent to the Lincoln Park neighborhood contains the Lincoln Park Zoo, take a walk in, it’s FREE.
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Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Lincoln Park

Glazed and Infused
939 W Armitage Ave
Who doesn’t need a mid-day doughnut?! It was so hard to decide between all of the seasonal flavors, but with my birthday only a few days away, I had to go with this celebratory ring of sugar!
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Glazed and Infused

RPM Italian, Chicago
52 W Illinois Street 
I had my eye on RPM Italian since we booked our trip, but unfortunately there were no reservations five days out. However, Friday morning I checked Open Table incase and a 4PM dinner slot opened. Earlier than we would have preferred for dinner, but we had evening plans, so we went with it. During our dinner, it proved that we could have shown up and asked for a table at a slightly later time, but it did start to fill up. EVERYTHING WAS AMAZING. I am thrilled that there’s one back home in D.C. because I need to try this entire menu.
Noteworthy: The Brussel Sprout and Avocado Salad – YES; House Made Pasta All The Way – Carbonara FTW!; Find room for the Hazelnut Tartufo. See what I’m saying??
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Second City
E.T.C Theater
1608 N Wells Street
This small comedy theater, which has more than its fair share of successful alum, such as Tina Fey, Amy Poehler, Bill Murray and Chris Farley (to name a few)  has become today’s leading brand in improv-based sketch comedy, and is an absolute must, IMO. This was another recommendation that was sold out days earlier when we booked our trip. But since we were in the Lincoln Park area Friday morning, we stopped by Second City on our walk home just to see it and out of curiosity asked the concierge if there was anything available. To our surprise, he had two tickets for the show, “A Red Line Runs Through It,” by far the funniest thing I’ve seen in A LONG TIME – if you are in Chicago while this is still running, please go see it. I guarantee at least one, if not more, of these actors will be the next big thing on SNL.
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Second City - A Red Line Runs through It

SATURDAY

Jam
3057 West Logan Blvd
This was Will’s favorite restaurant of the whole trip. He is not a French toast person and my lord, I think he would have taken six orders of this home if he could.
Tip: Order a short stack of the French toast to split and order the hot chicken and waffle for your meal.
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Jam Restaurant French Toast
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Jam Restaurant Hot Chicken and Waffle

‘Greetings From Chicago’ Mural
2226 N Milwaukee Ave.
I love street art, and Chicago has a ton of it, but this one is definitely my favorite. It’s off the beaten path in a tiny parking lot, but worth it. The mural, which is part of a national project called The Greetings From Tour, was painted by Victor Ving, a former graffiti artist from New York City, and photographed by Lisa Beggs, an experienced studio photographer.
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The Gage
24 South Michigan Avenue 
Great for an afternoon drink.

Chicago Traffic Jam
If you’re lucky enough to catch these guys performing on the street, you have to stay for a few songs! They are so good!
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Chicago Traffic Jam

Tanta
118 West Grand Avenue
Will and I only stopped in for a drink and ended up staying for dinner, we’re suckers for Peruvian food and Tanta does it right. The cebiche trio and pork fried rice are musts, the pisco sours are authentic and the crowd is lively.
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago Tanta

Bub City
435 N Clark St
Great bar to watch any sports game, we were lucky enough to watch the Cubs defeat the Dodgers in Game 6 of the NCLS when the Cubs won the pennant for the first time since 1945, clinching their spot for the World Series – needless to say it was packed.
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Bub City

SUNDAY

Cloud Gate aka ‘The Bean’
Millennium Park 
201 E Randolph Street 
Being that we were only a few blocks from Millennium Park, we decided to wake up earlier than necessary to catch our flight and see if we could get some photos of Cloud Gate sans so many people and I absolutely recommend it. The sculpture is even more breathtaking when you see it standing there on its own.
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There you have it folks, our 72 hour trip to Chicago! And for next time……

Chicago Architecture Cruise

Doughnut Vault

Pops For Champagne

Happy Exploring!

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Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - Street Art
Never Been So Wanderlust: A Long Weekend in Chicago - At Night

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Never Been So Wanderlust: Introduction

Traveling has always been an activity that thrills me. However, the planning.. not so much. I screenshot food I want to eat and scenery I must shoot, but that’s pretty much where my ‘travel planning’ ends.

Thankfully I married the planner of all planners when it comes to travel who will put all of my ‘must sees and eats etc.’ into a well thought out itinerary, so that we don’t end up resembling aimlessly wandering, directionally challenged hangry people!

And because sharing is caring, I plan to package this knowledge into a new series – Never Been So Wanderlust – and throw it out into the blogosphere. Whether it’s a day trip, long weekend or a two-week adventure, a game plan can help make the most of any place you’re visiting.

Not every post will be a full-on itinerary. Sometimes I may just post about a restaurant or an experience that can’t be missed. I also plan to share a few tips and tricks I’ve learned along the way that make traveling even easier. #themoreyouknow

You’ve been to X location before?
This world has A LOT to offer, and seeing a place more than once is not prohibited, take away a reason to return and/or please please comment with experiences I haven’t included!

You can plan your own trips?
Sure you can! Because, the Internet. However, like most things in life, sometimes it’s easier to have someone do it for you. You have enough to do before a trip: laundry, packing, sleeping, pet-cuddling etc., let us help!

Why should you listen to our travel opinions?
Well, there are plenty of professional travel sites and even more travel blogs out there, so no pressure, you do you! But we’ve been on plenty of domestic trips and several international vacations and have the hunger to see so many more. I mean we vowed to help each other see the world. We are cost conscious, but understand paying a little more is necessary in certain circumstances and will happily do so for the quality of the experience.

Don’t forget to follow along and share your photos with #neverbeensowanderlust!

Happy Traveling!

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Never Been So Wanderlust: Intro

 

Fall Essentials Part II: Florals

I started the Fall Essentials series last week (don’t forget to go back and enter the GIVEAWAY) and am so excited to share with you another of my Fall favorites. Florals are always in style, spring, summer, winter, and especially Fall. All the leaves are changing outside so why not match your look with mother nature.

Whistle & Wild is a fairly new boutique, established in 2016, and it is hitting the ground running. Owner, Amanda, combines her Southern influences with city flare to provide unique styles that have you filling up your cart FAST! I got this adorable lightweight Poppies Forever tunic and I can’t stop wearing it! I grabbed another Whistle & Wild piece that I CAN’T WAIT to share with you!

I also have to share this Free People hat that’s on killer sale right now!

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Fall Essentials Part 2: Florals

Fall Essentials Part 2: Florals

TOP: Whistle & Wild | HAT: Free People | CHOKER: Make Me Chic

SALE ALERT: This Maxi is Under $30

I can’t get over the temps coming at us for this long weekend. They’re perfect. And so is the price of this maxi – $29.99! 

Picked up this new choker at Brightside Boutique – one of many new styles! 

I head to Napa, California in just five days and I think these two are definitely making the cut for my packing list. 

90s Comeback: Bayside Tigers and Scrunchies

Have you ever had one of those days/weeks/months where you just long to be a little kid again? Where you want to escape all of the real-world drama and concern yourself with which heart throb poster you’d hang up on your wall from TeenBeat or whether you fed your tamagotchi enough food before you left for school.

If you follow me on Facebook or Instagram, you’ve most likely seen my desperate posts about our venue owner stealing A LOT of money from us and closing down the venue 5 weeks before our wedding. Re-planning a wedding that you’ve spent over 15 months planning, in only 5 weeks is NOT easy. So, all I can think about is how easy life was when we were kids. I decided to bring a little nostalgia back this week, in hopes of reliving a time that was stress and anxiety-free. I can’t say it fixed my problems, but wearing this Bayside Tigers tee and some scrunchies really made me feel on top of the world like Kelly Kapowski.

I allowed myself to take Sunday afternoon as a break from all of this drama. But now that it’s Monday, it’s back to the hunt for a wedding venue! One thing is for sure, we will get married on October 1. If only the Malibu Sands Beach Club was open.

This tee is currently sold out, but keep an eye out, because they’ll be restocking and it’s only $8.99!

90s Comeback: Bayside Tigers and Scrunchies

90s Comeback: Bayside Tigers and Scrunchies

Summer Sale: Three Pieces for $65!

Last post I detailed a denim look on super sale. This week I’m giving you another summer look that won’t have you digging deep in your pockets; this time the entire look (including sandals) is $65!

Free people is still having a major sale on accessories, but they’re fleeing fast! Friday, I looked online and they had 14 pages and now they’re down to 5! So, get moving quick. I nabbed this choker during their extra 50% off sale promo aka it was $5.

Last week I went to Nordstrom Rack and spent at least 3 hours in there hunting around. Found some great deals! I’m telling you if you have the time, take it. Stay tuned for some of the other gems I scored!

These sandals are at South Moon Under for UNDER $30!

Items linked below.

Summer Sale: Three Pieces for $65!

Summer Sale: Three Pieces for $65!

DRESS: Living Doll @ Nordstrom Rack | Choker: Free People | SANDALS: Lucky Brand @ South Moon Under

Summer Sale: This Whole Look for Under $35

I LOVE a good sale. It’s one of the things that excites me most. And what excites me even more, is being able to share those sales with others! So, if you’re reading this, you’re in luck! You can get this entire summer look for under $35.

Free people is having the best sale on accessories right now! I’ve gotten so many in the last couple weeks! My favorite is this cuffed bandana for only $9.95!

Can we also discuss how Old Navy has been killing it with their dress selection lately! This denim beauty only $25!

Items linked below.

 Summer Sale: This Whole Look for Under $35

Summer Sale: This Whole Look for Under $35

 DRESS: Old Navy | Bandana: Free People